Friday, January 22, 2010

Wang Zhaojun Reflects on Our Friendship

周志雄:你在小说中多次写到人之间的友谊,如《拂晓前的葬礼》中的吕锋和田家祥,《绿帽子》中的胡大威和姜一品,《青桐树》中的刘树和文风,他们年龄都差不多,都是同学。就我所知,你有两个好朋友,一个是与你同过事合著过书的吴国光,一个是你的同学Charles Burton。一个人在成长的历史中,朋友的影响可能大于父母,可以谈谈朋友对你的影响吗?
王兆军:我的朋友不是很多,私交范围比较窄。我不是那种会来事的人,经常叫人觉得无趣。可以设想,谁会跟一个无趣的人交往呢!我最头痛的就是走亲访友。我 的几个朋友,的确都比较知心,所以很珍惜。父母和朋友是很不同的。父母是长辈,是两代人,他们天然地拥有批评你的权力,交流起来很困难,有时得被迫接受他 们的观念。吴国光虽然是我的学生,但他在我的写作道路上给我很多帮助,其中有些是批评的形式。他很敏锐,也渊博,写过一些评论,我从他那儿受益不少。他现 在是香港中文大学教授。
Charles Burton现在是柏罗克大学教授,做过加拿大驻华使馆的文化参事和政治处主任。在Charles Burton身上,我学到了西方人的很多好品质,尤其是英国人那种绅士风度。他们能在任何时候都不失态,那种顽强维护人格和尊严的气概,对我来说很值得借 鉴。中国人经受的苦难太多,有时会因为一些屑琐小事或小东西而失态。我和他的交往,后来也有过一些分歧,主要是我的心理问题,有文化冲突的成分,不好多 说。
总起来说,我珍惜友情,主张朋友之间平等相待。不同文化之间,虽然有先进落后之分,但没有尊卑之分,不能笼统地说一种文化比另一种文化好,朋友之间更应当 彼此尊重。有时候,我渴望有很多朋友,经常一起喝茶聊天随便说笑自由自在,但更多的时候是怕麻烦。我不喜欢人多的地方,但不能没有朋友。


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Thursday, August 13, 2009

August 13, 2009: A very good day for 5 year-old Geoffrey Burton

Having just flown in from Shanghai the day before, I returned to the Toronto Airport on August 12 to pick up Mary, Lucy and Geoffrey who travelled back to Canada from Kunming via Beijing.

Geoffrey had been there since the end of May. He was obviously very happy to be home this morning. He played quietly by himself with his toys that he had been away from for 2 and a half months. For lunch he had his favourite food, shepherd's pie into which he mixes some ketchup. After lunch we went for a swim in the condo pool (just the two of us in there the whole time). Geoffrey spent a long time in the bath afterwards playing with his boats and plastic figures of pirates, etc. For supper I made him a hamburger. He watched a video and spoke to me in English only all day.

Nothing much happened. But I feel that perhaps we could not have had a better day together. It has been a day to keep in memory for all its simple joy.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Peter Michael Burton - 05/31/2009

Peter Michael Burton, MB, BS, MRCS, LRCP, MD. Physician. Died peacefully on May 30, 2009, Peter was for 55 years the loving and much loved husband of Rachel (nee Greaves). Born in London on March 7, 1916, Peter was educated at St. Martin’s Preparatory School, Epsom College, and at the Medical College of St. Mary’s Hospital, London, where he studied under Sir Alexander Fleming while Fleming was undertaking the first trials of penicillin. Peter enlisted as a medical officer in the RAF in 1940. After the war, he returned to St. Mary’s for postgraduate work. In 1954, he and Rachel were married at St. Michael’s, Chester Square, and decided to come to Canada. While Peter was on the staff of the Civic Hospital in Ottawa for 35 years, he was primarily a family physician and, in the custom of the day, made house calls every morning and evening. An immensely elegant, kindly, and reassuring figure, he was completely free of pretence, had a wonderful sense of humour, and a talent for putting children at ease. Uninterested in politics, he was a favourite of politicians of all parties who enjoyed his easy good nature and sympathetic ear. (He was, for example, a confidant of successive Prime Ministers, and Household Physician to the Governors General of Canada from the 1950s to the 1970s). But his heart lay with poor elderly people living alone, to whom he was especially attentive. He was respected and loved by his patients, family and friends. He is survived by his wife Rachel; sons Prof. Charles (Brock University) and the Rt. Rev. Anthony (Diocese of Dallas); daughters-in-law Mary and Anna; grandchildren Lucy, Caroline, Peter and Geoffrey. A Requiem Eucharist will be held at St. Bartholomew’s Anglican Church, 125 MacKay St., Ottawa on Wednesday, June 3, 2009 at 11 a.m.




Monday, April 27, 2009

Keith Tinkler Child Porn Charges


Wed, 2009-04-22 15:35.
A 67 year old man is facing child porn charges after a raid in St. Catharines Wednesday.
Police say they started investigating earlier this month.
Today, they searched a home on Bellevue Terrace, seizing computer components and other evidence.
Keith Tinkler is facing charges of possessing , distributing and making child pornography.
(http://www.610cktb.com/news/565/916084)

Comment: I just became aware of this today. Keith Tinkler is a colleague at Brock University. He is set to retire from the Department of Earth Sciences this June. He has been teaching at Brock since 1975. I did not know him well, but I often nodded to him as we passed in the halls on the way to lectures.
The part of this extremely disturbing news that preys on my mind is the allegation that he was "making child pornography." I shudder to imagine what that implies. How is it that he could have acted on such utterly evil impulses? Did we all miss some critical signs that behind Keith's mild gnome-like gently smiling exterior lurked Satan himself?
I pray for the healing of all the children that he is alleged to have damaged.
If the charges are proved, I ardently hope that Keith Tinkler will spend the rest of his life in prison in remorse and repentance.


Update June 3, 2009: Keith Tinkler was sentenced to 20 months imprisonment: http://www.stcatharinesstandard.ca/ArticleDisplay.aspx?e=2607237

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Reference Letters and TAs

I am finding more and more that students that I have never met are asking me for letters of reference. These are students who have attended my lectures, but have never had me as a seminar leader. These students have gone through their university careers instructed mostly by part-time contract employees. So they are in an awkward situation when it comes to requesting reference letters as the part-timers tend to be transient and anyway their lack of academic qualifications weakens the authoritativeness of their recommendation letters.

Undoubtedly the quality of education these students have received is inferior to that that students I taught in my early years at Brock received when classes were much smaller and direct interaction with tenured faculty was more the norm. This is a serious concern and a source of considerable regret to me.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

The Principles of Psalm 72 Inform My Life's Work

A Psalm for Solomon.

1  Give the king thy judgments, O God, and thy righteousness unto the king’s son.

2 He shall judge thy people with righteousness, and thy poor with judgment.

3 The mountains shall bring peace to the people, and the little hills, by righteousness.

4 He shall judge the poor of the people, he shall save the children of the needy, and shall break in pieces the oppressor.

5 They shall fear thee as long as the sun and moon endure, throughout all generations.

6 He shall come down like rain upon the mown grass: as showers that water the earth.

7 In his days shall the righteous flourish; and abundance of peace so long as the moon endureth.


Observation on the U.S. Election Result

President-elect Obama won 52.9% of the popular vote in the recent U.S. general election.  So close to half of the voters did not vote for Obama.

It makes me wonder about the electoral process in liberal democracies.  The results are often very close.  Why is this?  To my mind one would expect that in the course of a campaign one candidate and his policies would emerge is clearly superior to that of his rivals.  I would therefore expect result to be say more than 70% in favour of one over the others.  But it rarely seems to work that way.

It makes me question how really "democratic" our election system is.  But that being said it is clearly the best system compared to all others currently existing.